Pros: I love that this nursing pillow has back support & clips together, so it's not always sliding out. It latches around your waist. Pull it tight and use it as a platform for your baby in any sitting or standing position. I have brought this pillow on 13+ hour plane rides, used it to nurse in the front seat of my car while making a pit stop on a road trip, and use it six times a day every day at home. It helps me position my baby in a way I can stand without my arms getting tired or worrying about pillows and blankets slipping from underneath me. I have had an extremely difficult and painful breastfeeding experience, and I would not have been able to continue if I hadn't had this pillow. Cons: The cover is cheap thin fabric that was a nightmare to get off to wash it & even worse trying to get it back on. The first time I washed it, it probably took me 8 minutes to get the cover back on. I'm down to 2-3 minutes now, but it's still a pain. It's big. It takes up a ton of space on a plane, and is difficult to fit under the seat in front of you. For international flights, get the bassinet even if the baby doesn't like it. Then you can store your Brest Friend in the bassinet. Overall, it was still worth it & is my go to nursing pillow.